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Friday, September 30, 2005
i have been enjoying life so far, so much so that it makes me want to get to the next phase of my life which hopefully slow down the rotting process of my overall well-being. being subjected to alot of rest and free time, i have so far cultivated a bag full of sleepy germs that can last for weeks, before the effect of it wears of. because of this slacking, i came to realise what i want in life. free time can be pretty disastrous, it makes u think. thinking is good but thinking too much might have adverse effect on u too. well, NS might be a good start!
after having ivan around, my attitude towards NS has certainly changed quite abit. alot of times, we change without even realising it. either for the better, or for worse. a good company therefore, will definitely helps to build up your character. days of stoning at home made me realise how small one can be. we, by ourselves can really be very insignificant. our identity comprises of others as well. at the same time, we have to find an identity of our own, not of the group. i don't think alot of people will understand what i'm saying so i'll try to simplify my thoughts abit. alot of times, we try to reach for the stars. when we are able to do that, we feel happy, so much joy that we can't contain it - it overflows. if i were to be a loner, even if i got distinctions for everything but i have no one to share with, i have yet to achieve anything. this is to elaborate on the importance of having friends.
to find our identity within a group of friends, i am referring to having a mindset of ur own. everyone is a unique creation. we are made to think, act and behave differently. don't try to be somebody else just to blend in. it doesn't work that way. in the context of the body of christ, we have to find our own talents, so as to contribute effectively towards the church.
so much for the thinking. i believe life is actually very simple. 2 key words. listen and obey. i pretty much hope that my life is build upon this two principles. but we as humans, tends to complicate stuff. from simple things like love, friendship, school etc. friendships to me is by far the most important thing right now, apart from my family that is. friends encircled my life. i love and trust them, hoping to get back the same treatment. i like it when people share. in fact, that is the first criteria that i look for in a friend. being there with me is cool but u know, our friends are not God. he/she is not omni present. over the years, i've learnt not to count on it so much. for sharing, it is a must. yes i do believe that we have to have some privacy of our own, that is to make friendship more interesting. however, the closeness u can get in a friendship is close related to how much privacy u keep for urself. i shan't elaborate too much on that as it is self explainatory. another important factor to determine the closeness will be mutual love language. i think right now, it should be pretty obvious what my love language is, namely physical touch and quality time. i would naturally be more attracted to people who are willing to spend more time with me and have some physical contacts.. oh wait, that sounded quite wrong. physical contact is something that is quite natural. either u have it or u don't. as for quality time, spend more time with me and i will be ur good friend. thats bout it i guess. apart from this two, there's the words of affirmation and gifts. words of affirmation refers to encouragement and gift is giving presents. nothing simplier than that. the trick to get close to pple fast is by knowing the love language of ur friend. after which, things will flow nicely.
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went out with ivan today since he stayed over last night. we went to play basketball along with jon joel and co. played till 9 plus then we went for supper at the prata house nearby. food was great. mmm hmmm.. the food with have been better if it were hot!
went back, bathed, talked to ivan till quite late. woke up really late too, talked again and went to town area for gym. the place is really nice. worked out for less than an hour and there was this booming voice that called me all the way to the pool. swam abit and tanned all the way. in the midst of all these activities, i continued to talk to ivan. don't be surprised how much guys can talk. it is endless and btw, we weren't bitching most of the time. amy sort of told the cg that guys bitched more but i think its more like we are equal. had lunch there. i ordered the mee goreng which turned out to be really nice. ivan ordered pasta with lots of cheese. dunno how he survived. haha.
went shopping after that. i wanted to spend some money, but was unable to find anything nice enough to capture my attention. ivan bought this nice pair of jeans. walked around, settled down for a drink and walked all the way to parklane, where i took bus home while he walked back. overall, it was rather interesting. heh. i have pimples on face, injuries on my foot, hair loss from my scalp. what more can i ask? armygonnarockmyhotbodswithallthoseniceabsthatwillnotrotevenwheniwearsmellysocks.
that doesn't really make sense but at least it rhymes. haha. S T O N E D ! !
+++7:28 PM+++
Jesus is Love
i have been enjoying life so far, so much so that it makes me want to get to the next phase of my life which hopefully slow down the rotting process of my overall well-being. being subjected to alot of rest and free time, i have so far cultivated a bag full of sleepy germs that can last for weeks, before the effect of it wears of. because of this slacking, i came to realise what i want in life. free time can be pretty disastrous, it makes u think. thinking is good but thinking too much might have adverse effect on u too. well, NS might be a good start!
after having ivan around, my attitude towards NS has certainly changed quite abit. alot of times, we change without even realising it. either for the better, or for worse. a good company therefore, will definitely helps to build up your character. days of stoning at home made me realise how small one can be. we, by ourselves can really be very insignificant. our identity comprises of others as well. at the same time, we have to find an identity of our own, not of the group. i don't think alot of people will understand what i'm saying so i'll try to simplify my thoughts abit. alot of times, we try to reach for the stars. when we are able to do that, we feel happy, so much joy that we can't contain it - it overflows. if i were to be a loner, even if i got distinctions for everything but i have no one to share with, i have yet to achieve anything. this is to elaborate on the importance of having friends.
to find our identity within a group of friends, i am referring to having a mindset of ur own. everyone is a unique creation. we are made to think, act and behave differently. don't try to be somebody else just to blend in. it doesn't work that way. in the context of the body of christ, we have to find our own talents, so as to contribute effectively towards the church.
so much for the thinking. i believe life is actually very simple. 2 key words. listen and obey. i pretty much hope that my life is build upon this two principles. but we as humans, tends to complicate stuff. from simple things like love, friendship, school etc. friendships to me is by far the most important thing right now, apart from my family that is. friends encircled my life. i love and trust them, hoping to get back the same treatment. i like it when people share. in fact, that is the first criteria that i look for in a friend. being there with me is cool but u know, our friends are not God. he/she is not omni present. over the years, i've learnt not to count on it so much. for sharing, it is a must. yes i do believe that we have to have some privacy of our own, that is to make friendship more interesting. however, the closeness u can get in a friendship is close related to how much privacy u keep for urself. i shan't elaborate too much on that as it is self explainatory. another important factor to determine the closeness will be mutual love language. i think right now, it should be pretty obvious what my love language is, namely physical touch and quality time. i would naturally be more attracted to people who are willing to spend more time with me and have some physical contacts.. oh wait, that sounded quite wrong. physical contact is something that is quite natural. either u have it or u don't. as for quality time, spend more time with me and i will be ur good friend. thats bout it i guess. apart from this two, there's the words of affirmation and gifts. words of affirmation refers to encouragement and gift is giving presents. nothing simplier than that. the trick to get close to pple fast is by knowing the love language of ur friend. after which, things will flow nicely.
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went out with ivan today since he stayed over last night. we went to play basketball along with jon joel and co. played till 9 plus then we went for supper at the prata house nearby. food was great. mmm hmmm.. the food with have been better if it were hot!
went back, bathed, talked to ivan till quite late. woke up really late too, talked again and went to town area for gym. the place is really nice. worked out for less than an hour and there was this booming voice that called me all the way to the pool. swam abit and tanned all the way. in the midst of all these activities, i continued to talk to ivan. don't be surprised how much guys can talk. it is endless and btw, we weren't bitching most of the time. amy sort of told the cg that guys bitched more but i think its more like we are equal. had lunch there. i ordered the mee goreng which turned out to be really nice. ivan ordered pasta with lots of cheese. dunno how he survived. haha.
went shopping after that. i wanted to spend some money, but was unable to find anything nice enough to capture my attention. ivan bought this nice pair of jeans. walked around, settled down for a drink and walked all the way to parklane, where i took bus home while he walked back. overall, it was rather interesting. heh. i have pimples on face, injuries on my foot, hair loss from my scalp. what more can i ask? armygonnarockmyhotbodswithallthoseniceabsthatwillnotrotevenwheniwearsmellysocks.
that doesn't really make sense but at least it rhymes. haha. S T O N E D ! !
Jesus is Love