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Monday, June 13, 2005
just read someone's blog. it left me speechless. sometimes a simple comment might generate alot of unnecessary misunderstandings. something like 'u look pretty with ur pink shirt on' might be intepreted as 'u look like a bimbo' or something like that. anyhow, words can sometimes be very hurting. that i said alot of times but today i would go one step further.
when we hear something that is negative, the immediate response for most us will be ACTION. without any logical thinking or what so ever, we began to judge. not even considering that facts might be mutated along the way into something that is not that accurate. i fall into this trap very often too. getting influenced by someone when he/she tells me stuff. when it comes to criticism and judgement, it should be done only when it can build people up.
ephesians 4:29
do not let any unwholesome talk out of your mouth, but rather what is useful to build one's up so that whoever who listens to it may benefit. (something like that, quoting it out of memory. might not be word for word though)
do not let other people's comments make u condemn others. trust in what u see and believe. for that someone, we have been close before. don't u know me at all? am i someone who will gossip about people that i care? do i say things that will hurt people that i love for the sake of saying it? i do admit that i have hurt people with words before but most of the times i did it unknowingly.
anyway, i think out blog shouldn't involve open critism about someone in particular even when we are angry. its nice to spell out everything but u never know who's reading it. in other words, its like adding oil to fire, giving up on the friendship completely.
these few months, i have been working very hard to build up a strong fellowship within the cg. people from there should be able to tell. i hope that everyone will be able to trust me and the things that i do. i treat all of u from normal tm members to my family members. tried to give u the attention and the love. i don't expect anything from u, just hope that u will give ur life to Jesus. i might not be the best example to u but i'm trying to. whatever problems that u have, i want to be there for u. having said all that, if u still think i'm fake. then so be it. there's nothing i can do. i tried my best.
+++11:08 PM+++
Jesus is Love
just read someone's blog. it left me speechless. sometimes a simple comment might generate alot of unnecessary misunderstandings. something like 'u look pretty with ur pink shirt on' might be intepreted as 'u look like a bimbo' or something like that. anyhow, words can sometimes be very hurting. that i said alot of times but today i would go one step further.
when we hear something that is negative, the immediate response for most us will be ACTION. without any logical thinking or what so ever, we began to judge. not even considering that facts might be mutated along the way into something that is not that accurate. i fall into this trap very often too. getting influenced by someone when he/she tells me stuff. when it comes to criticism and judgement, it should be done only when it can build people up.
ephesians 4:29
do not let any unwholesome talk out of your mouth, but rather what is useful to build one's up so that whoever who listens to it may benefit. (something like that, quoting it out of memory. might not be word for word though)
do not let other people's comments make u condemn others. trust in what u see and believe. for that someone, we have been close before. don't u know me at all? am i someone who will gossip about people that i care? do i say things that will hurt people that i love for the sake of saying it? i do admit that i have hurt people with words before but most of the times i did it unknowingly.
anyway, i think out blog shouldn't involve open critism about someone in particular even when we are angry. its nice to spell out everything but u never know who's reading it. in other words, its like adding oil to fire, giving up on the friendship completely.
these few months, i have been working very hard to build up a strong fellowship within the cg. people from there should be able to tell. i hope that everyone will be able to trust me and the things that i do. i treat all of u from normal tm members to my family members. tried to give u the attention and the love. i don't expect anything from u, just hope that u will give ur life to Jesus. i might not be the best example to u but i'm trying to. whatever problems that u have, i want to be there for u. having said all that, if u still think i'm fake. then so be it. there's nothing i can do. i tried my best.
Jesus is Love